Space... to infinity and beyond!

The need to feel free to put on make up without your beau rolling his eyes is something i need to emphasize on... not that i put on make up or that my boyfriend rolls his eyes at anything i do...its a metaphor for that individual space one loses on entering into a realtionship. i'm still adjusting to the notion of being answerable to somebody who cares so much about me that it he presumes interference to be romantic.
I need my space ...so that i can indulge in the crazy, unexplainable things i did while i was single like watching T.V without being watched, like reading an sms without someone over my shoulder, like going for a drive for absolutely no reason.... it hurts to see the one you love get hurt because its hard for you to break a habit... but men really need to understand how important eating chocolate and bubble baths are to a lady... minus the men of course!
i've always been one to love "me" time... of course it can be a problem when "me" time overshadows "us" itme so drawing boundaries is a must. At the same time, its inacceptable for anybody to be denying you that unsupervised time unless your in a detention center or a reality show... so here's a little word of advice to the male folk.. let your women be... they're not going anywhere just because they're out of your sight.